👉 Hi, I’m Victor — and I know it’s not you, it’s work.

Work doesn't have to feel like a bad relationship.

After years of working in complex, demanding industries like heavy manufacturing, supply chain, and engineering, I noticed something strange — the patterns we see in toxic or mismatched workplaces often mirror real-life relationship dynamics.

So I started mapping it out. What if we treated work relationships with the same honesty, curiosity, and tools we use in our personal lives?
That’s how “It’s Not You, It’s Work” was born — a space where we decode professional pain points, one metaphor at a time.

🧩 What I Bring to the Table

  • ✅ 20+ years of experience across high-pressure industries

  • ✅ A background in Quality Management, Business Analysis & Operations

  • ✅ A human-first lens on leadership, workplace culture, and career strategy

  • ✅ A knack for turning complicated workplace issues into language that makes sense

I’m not here to sell fluff. I’m here to help people understand what’s really happening at work — and what they can do about it.

📚 Why This Project Matters

Too many smart, talented people blame themselves for being "bad employees" when they’re actually stuck in broken systems. Through quizzes, guides, and weekly insights, I help people name what’s wrong at work — so they can finally start making it right.

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👋 One More Thing...

If you’ve ever felt like your job was gaslighting you, or that your workplace “just isn’t that into you” — welcome. You’re not alone. And you’re in the right place.